Dear Friend,
I know you want to
save your marriage.
Right now, you may be feeling confused, afraid or maybe even
angry.
You don't know where to turn or what to do. When you stated your
wedding vows, you meant it and you still love that person that you
vowed to spend the rest of your life with.
Your vow is your compact
and you want to save your marriage more than anything else, and you
should!
I can help you.
Over the past ten years, I have discovered exactly what works and what
doesn't work when it comes to saving a marriage.
Sit
back for a moment and calm down; we can get through this.
I know you
hurt. Maybe you feel betrayed or unloved. Perhaps, when you
look at
your spouse, you feel anger, resentment, sadness, anxiety or
confusion. It wasn't always like this though; was it?
I want you to
stop for a moment and think back to a wondrous day in your past:
Your
Wedding Day. Do you remember how you felt? Do remember the
Joy, the
Happiness, and the Contentment that you felt that day?
Sure you were
nervous, but deep down inside; you knew that you had chosen the right
person to spend your life with. You were right and that person is
still the right person.
Remember these words?
to
have and to hold from this day forward
for better or for worse,
for richer or for poorer,
in sickness and in health,
to love and to cherish;
from this day forward until death do us
part.
They meant something
then and today they still
mean something.
Simply put, you
are here because you no longer feel the joy, the wonder, the excitement
and passion that you felt on your wedding day. Maybe it's worse
and
you are on a path leading to divorce.
Today, what was
once wondrous is now tedious; what was once brought you joy, now brings
you anxiety. All of the little quirks that were, at one time,
cute and
adorable now anger you or disappoint you.
You feel tired, stressed and emotionally drained. Although you
are not alone, You Do Not Have To
Feel This Way.
First, you met,
then you fell in love. You did not think about it or plan
it. It just
happened. That is why it is called falling in love. After you
were
married, things changed though. Pressures bear down on us and
drive us
apart. Time that was once shared lovingly now seems
tedious. We only
want to deal with the "for better" part of our vow but the reality of
the "for worse" part comes crashing down on us.
Falling in love is
passive but staying in love is active and you need to take action to do
it.
To save your marriage, you are now going to have to DO something.
Reading this is only the first step.
Keep reading so that I can show you exactly what you need to do
to save your marriage.
First, you need
to understand what you are up against. You will need to know what
you
are facing as you do everything you can to save your marriage.
Everyone you talk to will share strategies with you and the problem is
that most are tired and old and do not work.
Here are some strategies that simply do not work. Do not do them.
Strategy for
Failure #1
Give them
reassurance: "I've changed." "I won't lie to you
anymore." "I won't
have another affair." If you have betrayed their trust,
simply
stating that you will no longer do the things that hurt them will never
work.
Strategy for Failure #2
Arguing:
Trying
to reason, use logic, or to talk them into feeling different or doing
things differently never works. You will never be able to
convince or
provide proof to someone that you are deserving of Love.
Don't bother
trying. Instead it is up to you to lead them to their own
conclusion
that you are deserving of their love. Love cannot be taken.
It must
be freely given and I can show you how graciously receive it.
Strategy for Failure
3.
Being
Pessimistic: It is easy to fall into the pessimism
trap. This will
automatically set you up for failure. Deep down everyone wants to
be
right. You want to be right when you choose your career, your
haircut,
clothing, home, car, etc. The problem with pessimism is that it
is a
paradox: you want to save your marriage but you want to still have that
sense that you were right even if it fails. It will fail and you
will
be right... About the wrong thing!
Strategy for
Failure #4
Tell them over
and over again, "I love you." This simply never works and may
backfire. Remember all of those things that your partner thought
were
cute when you first met but now make your spouse's teeth grind?
Doing
this will only add the most wonderful thing that you can say to anyone
to this list of things.
Success is within
your grasp!
By now you may
be feeling like there is nothing you can do. You may have read
the
strategies for failure and thought about all of the times that you have
tried them and failed.
You do not have
to fail. Here are some things that you can start doing right now
to
change the path of your relationship and start putting your marriage
back on course for success.
Success Strategy #1
Agree with
everything your spouse says or does.
You must agree
even if they state that they want a divorce! I know that you
think I
am crazy for suggesting this. However, here is the reason. This
is
what psychologists call negative suggestibility.
Success Strategy #2
Stop
pressuring!
Simply put: stop criticizing, stop complaining, stop whining.
Success Strategy
#3
Act Happy.
Exhibit contentment with the status quo. Agree with it and act
happy about whatever it is that they want.
When your spouse
is pulling away from you, wanting a divorce or wanting separation, they
are almost always experiencing an opposing perception of what they
believe your perception to be. By agreeing with them, you will
shift
the perception and feelings of wanting to remain together will be
fostered. Some people call this reverse psychology but that is
not
altogether true.
Do not defend
yourself. It is ingrained in our nature to fight opposing forces
and
to protect the helpless. If you simply agree with the negative
things
your husband or wife is saying, the response will be one of protection
and caring. This alone can bring your relationship a lot closer
to
being mended
What do I do?
These three steps are
powerful tools and must be applied consistently.
Covered in my
book are more powerful tools and strategies that are guaranteed to
work. If you do take the steps that are clearly written in my
book,
you will save your marriage. You will get back that passion,
contentment and love that you felt when you first got married.
These strategies
work and they are only a glimpse of what is inside my book. Let
me
tell you about a situation involving someone close to me.
Recently, a
friend called me and told me that his wife had been telling him that
she did not love him anymore and that their "marriage can't work and I
don't want it to work." He was tired, and frustrated. I had
known
that they were going through some tough times but I did not realize how
bad things had gotten. I sent him a copy of my book even before
it was
finished. Inside my book there are specifics that enable you to
diffuse these situations. He read the book and put it into
practice.
I didn't hear from him for two weeks, but then I received this email
from him:
Last night Cindy
came home after work and it looked like she had been crying. She
sat
down on our bed and started telling me how she didn't love me anymore
and that this marriage can't work. She told me that we were
through
and she had absolutely no desire for it to work. She then looked
down
and got up to leave.
I simply
followed the advice that was in your book and said what it told me to
say. She had reached the door and she turned around and stared at
me.
I don't know how to describe the look she gave me. She left the
room
and I thought it was over.
Ten minutes
later, she came back into the room, stood at the foot of the bed looked
at me and said: "I'm sorry, I do want our marriage to work and I
really think it can work."
Thanks Alex, I think
we are going to make it. |
This
can happen to you!
Your situation is not unique and more importantly - your situation is
NOT hopeless.
This material
works. When it is applied in a consistent manner, you will save
your
marriage. Thousands have already benefitted from it and remain
happily
married. This is a proven system that has been working
successfully
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Stop
Doing What Doesn't Work
By now you have
already made enough mistakes on your own. There are a lot of
people
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I can help you. But
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I look forward to
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